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i swear i’m losing patience with the “i’m just busy” thing.

because yes. people are busy. i am busy. everyone is busy. we all have jobs, laundry, friends, family, weird errands, bad sleep, whatever.

but if you are on dating apps, matching people, flirting, saying you want something serious… then at some point you need to have enough time to actually date.

not text once every 3 days and say “sorry work has been insane” forever.

i matched with someone recently who seemed good on paper. we talked for a bit, decent vibe, nothing weird. i suggested meeting. he said this week was “crazy” but he’d love to “soon.”

fine.

next week, same thing. “busy but definitely want to.”

third time i just stopped replying because i felt like i was trying to schedule an appointment with a haunted dentist.

and now i’m wondering if i’m being too harsh. maybe people really are that busy. maybe i should be more patient.

but also… if you can’t pick one coffee slot in 2 weeks, are you actually available to date or do you just like the idea of being available?

where is the line between being understanding and becoming someone’s unpaid scheduling assistant?